Duchess as we talked in chat. And this may sound a little trite. But here goes anyway.
In the media one of the more favorable protraying of same sex relationship on TV, Willow and Tara on Buffy. In an interview, Amber Benson (actress who played Tara Maclay on Buffy) was asked why people seemed to relate and empathize with Willow and Tara's story and she answered, "because it's a real relationship".
And in response to why this might matter to anyone anywhere. In a Q and A session in, July 2002, during Toronto Trek 2002, Amber told following anecdote, "I meet this young lady at a Bronze Posting Party (the Bronze was the official BtVS posting message board during much of the series history), and she (the young lady)said that she had come 'out' because of Willow and Tara, and that now she had a g/f and her life was so much better than it had been." Guess it might be a little unrealistic to expect, or even beleive, a TV show could have this sort of effect.
And during the same Q and A session, Amber said her character had been initially resisted by some of the fans for a variety of reasons including Tara's sexual identity, and her answer was that people should just get over it, that being a lesbian was life, and she refused to say 'alternate' lifestyle.
Nuff for now. taraswizard
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